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You Hurt My Feelings

2023Movie1 h 33 minR

ComedyDrama
76
GreatGoodWatch score
IMDb6.5Metacritic806.4Rotten Tomatoes94%74%

A hopeful, romantic drama movie about everyday modern life and family.

Good for date night · friends night · teens

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Not for scares, brutality or adrenaline.

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Story

A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

Feels like

  • Relationship Dynamics
  • Marriage
  • Writer's Woes
  • New York Setting
  • Emotional Honesty
  • Mid-Life Crises
  • Witty Banter
  • Introspective Comedy

Cast

24 of 27

Crew

Directed by
Nicole Holofcener
Written by
Nicole Holofcener
Produced by
Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Nicole Holofcener, Anthony Bregman
Music by
Michael Andrews

Everyone

Pick a department, or search for a name or a job (“editor”, “stunt”).

Facts

May 26, 2023 · 1 h 33 min · R

Released
May 26, 2023
Runtime
1 h 33 min
Age rating
R
Content
Strong Language
Genres
Drama, Comedy, Romance
Original language
English
Also spoken
Spanish
Made in
United States
Box office
$5 million
Available in
103 countries

Tropes

Bait-and-Switch, Most Writers Are Writers, True Art Is Angsty +9

  • Bait-and-Switch
  • Most Writers Are Writers
  • True Art Is Angsty
  • Lying to Protect Your Feelings
  • Central Theme
  • Always Someone Better
  • Casting Gag
  • "Friends" Rent Control
  • The Cobbler's Children Have No Shoes
  • Throw the Dog a Bone
  • Sickeningly Sweethearts
  • Breaking the Cycle of Bad Parenting

12 of 16 tropes. From TV Tropes.

Q&A

4 questions, like "Where can I stream You Hurt My Feelings?"

Questions about You Hurt My Feelings

Quick answers from GoodWatch data.

Where can I stream You Hurt My Feelings?

HBO MaxKanopyHooplaPlex

In the United States, You Hurt My Feelings streams on HBO Max, and it is free with ads on Kanopy, Hoopla, and Plex. You can rent or buy it from Apple TV Store, Google Play Movies, YouTube, Fandango At Home, and Spectrum On Demand. It also streams in 40 other countries.

Is You Hurt My Feelings worth watching?

76
GreatGoodWatch score

Mostly, it's well received, with a GoodWatch score of 76 (IMDb 6.5, Rotten Tomatoes 94%, and Metacritic 80). Critics rate it higher (87 out of 100) than audiences (68).

Will You Hurt My Feelings make me laugh?

Funny

Yes: the humor is mostly situational comedy (8 of 10) and sharp wit (7 of 10).

Is You Hurt My Feelings good for date night?

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Yes: romance is 7 of 10, and the viewing guide lists it for date night.