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You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

2023Movie1 h 43 minPG-13

ComedyDrama
68
GoodGoodWatch score
IMDb5.9Letterboxd2.5/5Metacritic714.8Rotten Tomatoes91%60%

A hopeful, wholesome comedy movie about everyday modern life and growing up.

Good for family movie night · friends night · party vibe

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Not for brutality, scares or big ideas.

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Story

7th grade drama just hits different.

Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic bat mitzvahs. But things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

Feels like

  • Teen Comedy
  • Coming-of-Age
  • Friendship Drama
  • Middle School Life
  • Bat Mitzvah Chaos
  • Relatable Humor
  • Family Relationships
  • Pop Culture References
  • Lighthearted

Cast

24 of 32

Crew

Directed by
Sammi Cohen
Written by
Alison Peck
Produced by
Adam Sandler, Tim Herlihy, Leslie Morgenstein
Music by
Este Haim, Amanda Yamate

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Facts

August 18, 2023 · 1 h 43 min · PG-13

Released
August 18, 2023
Runtime
1 h 43 min
Age rating
PG-13
Content
Strong Language
Genres
Comedy, Drama
Original language
English
Made in
United States
Available in
131 countries
Keywords
based on novel or book

Tropes

Coming of Age Story, Spoiled Sweet, "The Reason You Suck" Speech +9

  • Coming of Age Story
  • Spoiled Sweet
  • "The Reason You Suck" Speech
  • Green-Eyed Monster
  • Running Gag
  • Only One Finds It Fun
  • Cringe Comedy
  • Jerkass
  • Everyone Has Standards
  • Dodgy Toupee
  • Title Drop
  • Setting Update

12 of 33 tropes. From TV Tropes.

Q&A

6 questions, like "Where can I stream You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah?"

Questions about You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

Quick answers from GoodWatch data.

Where can I stream You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah?

Netflix

In the United States, You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah streams on Netflix. It also streams in 130 other countries.

Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah worth watching?

68
GoodGoodWatch score

Mostly, it's well received, with a GoodWatch score of 68 (IMDb 5.9, Letterboxd 2.5 out of 5, Rotten Tomatoes 91%, and Metacritic 71). Critics rate it higher (81 out of 100) than audiences (54).

Is You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah okay for kids?

PG-13Strong language

Yes: it's rated PG-13 in the United States for strong language, and the viewing guide lists it for family nights.

Will You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah make me laugh?

Funny

Yes: the humor is mostly situational comedy (8 of 10) and cringe comedy (7 of 10).

Can I half-watch You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah?

Easy watchDemanding

Yes: it's easy to follow, with complexity at only 2 of 10, and the viewing guide calls it good for background watching.

What tropes does You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah use?

Coming of Age StorySpoiled Sweet"The Reason You Suck" SpeechGreen-Eyed MonsterRunning GagOnly One Finds It FunCringe ComedyJerkassEveryone Has StandardsDodgy ToupeeTitle DropSetting Updateand 21 more

TV Tropes lists 33 tropes for it, including Coming of Age Story, Spoiled Sweet, and "The Reason You Suck" Speech.