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Holding the Man

2015·Movie
2h 8min·NR
79
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Strong craft, striking style, a touch of humor.

Energy

Calm and low-key

  • Tension5
  • Fast Pace5
  • Adrenaline4

Heart

Deeply romantic and deeply moving

  • Romance9
  • Pathos9
  • Melancholy8

Humor

Some sharp wit

Not a comedy at heart.

  • Wit & Wordplay5
  • Situational Comedy3
  • Cringe Humor2

World

A real life story, everyday modern life, and society

  • World Immersion7
  • Dialogue Centrality7
  • Rewatchability7

Craft

Standout performances and characters

  • Acting8
  • Character Depth8
  • Direction7

Style

Functional look and sound

  • Cinematography7
  • Editing7
  • Music Composition7

Who it's for

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About

A love story for everyone.

Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.
Biographical DramaLove StoryComing-of-AgeDiscriminationLoss and GriefRelationshipsEmotional JourneyContemporary RealismEnduring Romance

Sequels and Prequels

No sequels or prequels available

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Questions about Holding the Man

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Where can I stream Holding the Man legally?

You can watch it free with ads on Fandango at Home Free. You can also rent or buy it from Apple TV, Amazon Video, Apple TV Store, and Google Play Movies. All links in Where to Watch go to these licensed services.

Is Holding the Man worth watching?

79
GreatGoodWatch score

Mostly. It's well received, with a GoodWatch score of 79/100 (IMDb 7.5 and Rotten Tomatoes 81%). The GoodWatch score combines critic and audience ratings.

What is Holding the Man rated?

NRSexual contentStrong languageDrug use

It's rated NR in the United States. Content advisories: sexual content, strong language, and drug use.

How long is Holding the Man?

2 h 8 min

Holding the Man runs 2 h 8 min.

Is Holding the Man based on a true story?

Yes. It's based on real events or a real person's life.

Do critics and audiences agree on Holding the Man?

Critics81
Audiences78

Yes. Critics average 81 and audiences 78 out of 100, so both groups see Holding the Man much the same way.

What language is Holding the Man in?

English

It was made in English. Produced in Australia.

In how many countries can I watch Holding the Man?

9ATAUCHDEGBGGIENZUS

GoodWatch finds legal streaming, rental, or purchase options for Holding the Man in 9 countries. Pick any of them in Where to Watch to see the local services.

What tropes does Holding the Man use?

Poor Man's PornLove at First SightAffectionate NicknameIntertwined FingersFirst-Person PerspectiveCompressed AdaptationThat Came Out WrongCloset KeyThe StingerJustified TitleYour Days Are NumberedInterrupted Intimacyand 15 more

TV Tropes lists 27 storytelling tropes for Holding the Man, including Poor Man's Porn, Love at First Sight, Affectionate Nickname.